Why Saying "I'm Busy" Is Not an Excuse, but a Red Flag The phrase "I'm busy" has become a ubiquitous excuse for avoiding social commitments in modern relationships.
However, beneath this seemingly innocuous phrase lies a complex web of issues, including emotional unavailability and lack of commitment.
Understanding the Problem with "Busy" Excuses in Relationships The frequency with which we accept "I'm busy" as an explanation for lack of availability reveals our own cultural biases and values.